■为母亲祈祷
Pray for My Mother
◎Ann Landers
Dear God,
Now that I am no longer young, I have friends whose mothers have passed away. I have heard these sons and daughters say they never fully appreciated their mothers until it was too late to tell them.
I am blessed with the dear mother who is still alive. I appreciate her more each day. My mother does not change, but I do. As I grow older and wiser, I realize what an extraordinary[12] person she is. How sad that I am unable to speak these words in her presence, but they flow easily from my pen.
How does a daughter begin to thank her mother for life itself? For the love, patience and just plain hard work that go into raising a child? For running after a toddler[13], for understanding a moody teenager, for tolerating a college student who knows everything? For waiting for the day when a daughter realizes her mother really is?
How does a grown woman thank for a mother for continuing to be a
亲爱的上帝：
如今我不再年轻，一些朋友的母亲已经去世。我曾听这些子女说，他们从没向母亲充分表达过他们的感激之情，而等到要告诉时为时已晚。
幸运的是，我亲爱的母亲依然健在。我对她的感情与日俱增。母亲没有变，我却变了。随着年岁的增长，我越来越懂事了，我意识到她是多么了不起的人。这些话在她面前我难以启齿，但在笔下可以轻易地写出来，这令我感到多么难过。
一个女儿该怎样开口感谢她的母亲所给予的生命？感谢她在抚养孩子时所付出的爱、耐心以及无私的辛勤劳动？感谢她跟在蹒跚学步的孩子身后奔跑，对喜怒无常的少女的理解，以及对一个自以为是的大学生的宽容？感谢她等待女儿认识到她真是一位好母亲的一天？
一个成年女子该怎样感谢母亲依然如故的角色？感谢在被问到时她
名人语库
～Charles Chaplin
——查尔斯·卓别林
mother? For being ready with advice（when asked）or remaining silent when it is most appreciated? For not saying “I told you so”, when she could have uttered[14] these words dozens of times? For being essentially herself—loving, thoughtful, patient, and forgiving?
I don’t know how, dear God, except to bless her as richly as she deserves and to help me live up to the example she has set. I pray that I will look as good in the eyes of my children as my mother looks in mine.
A daughter
会及时提供良言，而在不需要时她会保持沉默？感谢她没有说“我告诉过你”，而她本来可以说上许多次？感谢她始终不变的爱心、体贴周到、耐心和宽容？
我不知道该怎样表达，亲爱的上帝，除了请求你好好地保佑她——那是她该得到的——并帮助我朝她做出的榜样看齐。我祈祷，在孩子的眼里，我会如同母亲在我眼里一般好。
一位女儿