第10章 "VIRGINIBUS PUERISQUE"(10)

This simple accident of falling in love is as beneficial as it is astonishing.It arrests the petrifying influence of years, disproves cold-blooded and cynical conclusions, and awakens dormant sensibilities.Hitherto the man had found it a good policy to disbelieve the existence of any enjoyment which was out of his reach; and thus he turned his back upon the strong sunny parts of nature, and accustomed himself to look exclusively on what was common and dull.He accepted a prose ideal, let himself go blind of many sympathies by disuse; and if he were young and witty, or beautiful, wilfully forewent these advantages.He joined himself to the following of what, in the old mythology of love, was prettily called NONCHALOIR; and in an odd mixture of feelings, a fling of self-respect, a preference for selfish liberty, and a great dash of that fear with which honest people regard serious interests, kept himself back from the straightforward course of life among certain selected activities.And now, all of a sudden, he is unhorsed, like St.Paul, from his infidel affectation.His heart, which has been ticking accurate seconds for the last year, gives a bound and begins to beat high and irregularly in his breast.It seems as if he had never heard or felt or seen until that moment; and by the report of his memory, he must have lived his past life between sleep and waking, or with the preoccupied attention of a brown study.He is practically incommoded by the generosity of his feelings, smiles much when he is alone, and develops a habit of looking rather blankly upon the moon and stars.But it is not at all within the province of a prose essayist to give a picture of this hyperbolical frame of mind; and the thing has been done already, and that to admiration.In ADELAIDE, in Tennyson's MAUD, and in some of Heine's songs, you get the absolute expression of this midsummer spirit.Romeo and Juliet were very much in love; although they tell me some German critics are of a different opinion, probably the same who would have us think Mercutio a dull fellow.Poor Antony was in love, and no mistake.That lay figure Marius, in LESMISERABLES, is also a genuine case in his own way, and worth observation.A good many of George Sand's people are thoroughly in love; and so are a good many of George Meredith's.Altogether, there is plenty to read on the subject.If the root of the matter be in him, and if he has the requisite chords to set in vibration, a young man may occasionally enter, with the key of art, into that land of Beulah which is upon the borders of Heaven and within sight of the City of Love.There let him sit awhile to hatch delightful hopes and perilous illusions.

One thing that accompanies the passion in its first blush is certainly difficult to explain.It comes (I do not quite see how) that from having a very supreme sense of pleasure in all parts of life - in lying down to sleep, in waking, in motion, in breathing, in continuing to be - the lover begins to regard his happiness as beneficial for the rest of the world and highly meritorious in himself.Our race has never been able contentedly to suppose that the noise of its wars, conducted by a few young gentlemen in a corner of an inconsiderable star, does not re-echo among the courts of Heaven with quite a formidable effect.In much the same taste, when people find a great to-do in their own breasts, they imagine it must have some influence in their neighbourhood.The presence of the two lovers is so enchanting to each other that it seems as if it must be the best thing possible for everybody else.They are half inclined to fancy it is because of them and their love that the sky is blue and the sun shines.And certainly the weather is usually fine while people are courting...In point of fact, although the happy man feels very kindly towards others of his own sex, there is apt to be something too much of the magnifico in his demeanour.If people grow presuming and self-important over such matters as a dukedom or the Holy See, they will scarcely support the dizziest elevation in life without some suspicion of a strut; and the dizziest elevation is to love and be loved in return.Consequently, accepted lovers are a trifle condescending in their address to other men.An overweening sense of the passion and importance of life hardly conduces to simplicity of manner.To women, they feel very nobly, very purely, and very generously, as if they were so many Joan-of-Arc's; but this does not come out in their behaviour; and they treat them to Grandisonian airs marked with a suspicion of fatuity.I am not quite certain that women do not like this sort of thing; but really, after having bemused myself over DANIEL DERONDA, I have given up trying to understand what they like.

If it did nothing else, this sublime and ridiculous superstition, that the pleasure of the pair is somehow blessed to others, and everybody is made happier in their happiness, would serve at least to keep love generous and great-hearted.