第1章 序言：每个人都需要感动

Everyone Needs Gratitude

A man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box.

Nevertheless， the little girl brought the gift to her father on Christmas morning and said， “This is for you， Daddy.” He was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction， but his anger flared again when he found the box was empty.

He yelled at her， “Don’t you know when you give someone a present， there’s supposed to be something inside it？”

The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said， “Oh， Daddy， it’s not empty， I blew kisses into the box. All for you， Daddy.”

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl， and he begged for her forgiveness.

It was not long before the girl was killed in a terrible accident. It is told that the man kept that gold box by his bed for years and whenever he was discouraged， he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In fact， when you express gratitude， you show your love and appreciation. Everyone needs to feel these things every day. Look at everyone with grateful eyes. Listen to your heart and the heart of your loved ones. Speak words of affirmation every day of your life. Be grateful for your life with all its lessons and blessings. The more grateful thoughts and feelings you experience and express the more instrumental you will be in healing the world. And your outlook on life will improve in the process.

一位父亲惩罚了自己三岁的小女儿，因为她把一整卷精美而昂贵的包装纸剪坏了。当看到女儿用这卷包装纸包盒子时，想到家里低微的收入，这位父亲越发生气了。

不管怎样，在圣诞节那天早晨，女儿还是把她精心用金色包装纸包好的礼物送给了爸爸：“爸爸，这是给你的礼物。”很显然，此刻爸爸因为之前的过激行为而十分尴尬，当他打开礼物时，却发现里面空空如也。

他非常生气，朝女儿吼道：“难道你不知道，送别人礼物时应该在盒子里放上东西吗？”

小姑娘很委屈，含着眼泪对爸爸说：“不，爸爸，这个盒子不是空的。我把它包好之前，在里面装了满满的吻。都是给你的，爸爸。”

爸爸呆住了，他紧紧地把小女儿抱在怀里，请求她的原谅。

之后不久，一次可怕的事故夺去了小女孩的生命，而这位父亲一生都把这只金色的盒子摆在床头。每当面对非常刺手的问题或是缺乏勇气的时候，他就会打开这只盒子，想象着接受女儿的一个吻，回想着孩子放在里面的爱。

其实，当你表示感动的时候，就展现出了你的爱心和感激。每个人每天都需要这些感受。看下那些感动的眼神，聆听你的内心和你所爱的人的内心，每天说些肯定的话，倾听令你感动的教训和祝福。你拥有的感动的思想和感情越多，你对社会的作用就越大，你对生命的见解也会更深。